The subject of “forgiveness “ could be a very interesting one . This subject appears as a universal one ; affects people of all cultures and all religions and all age groups. As humans,someone might have offended you in a way or another. You might also have offended someone in a way or another. The differences in religious beliefs, taste, cultural beliefs, preferences and opinions present each and every individual on the platform to be offended. The moment there are one or two people in a particular space makes offences unavoidable.
It must be noted that offense is unavoidable when more than one person is present in a particular space .
What is Offense?
Offense is when someone is displeased or unhappy about a particular event or situation or something someone said to him or way. It could also be explained as a displeasure about the actions or inactions of a particular person.
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Forgiveness Means:
Letting go of the pain and discomfort associated with remembering an action or event that occurred to cause that feeling.
What Unforgiveness Does
Have you noticed that whenever you think about that bad thing your neighbor did to you, you get so angry, your heart begins to pound so fast, sometimes causing you to cry. You may even feel your head ache from thinking about such situations and events. This is why you must let it go-forgive!
Letting Go
Well I’m not here to tell you “forgiveness “ is an easy feat-fat from it. It is very hard to practice or even explain. Forgiveness has no formula . You can start by ignoring the event in order not to think about it, whenever it shows up in your mind about what happened that hurt you, you can push it aside . You can decide not to dwell your mind on things that hurt you but dwell on things that make you refreshed and relaxed. When you think about things that hurt you and cause you pain you put lots of pressure on your heart and you become unhappy, you may even lose appetite for food or eat too much which may lead to obesity or health issues.
Why Forgiveness is a Must
We encourage forgiveness in order to protect our heart, to have good memories and focus on good thoughts, thoughts that bring peace and joy not otherwise. We encourage forgiveness so that we can eat well and rest well- not loose sleep over the actions of others that we have no control over.
One cannot control the actions of others towards him or her but one can decide how to feel about the actions and deeds of others.
